The Love of a Woman

“Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.”
~ Lao Tzu, 6th Century BCE


Love is not a construct of "society".  It is not a meaningless chemical in your brain. It is not a system designed to oppress women. It is not an institution forged to surpress men. 

It is never old.  It is never new.  It is a constant regardless of how much we think we know and how much we think we've changed.  It is independent of technology, of social movements, or political decrees.  It doesn't change with the changing of the times.

Love is as real and powerful as any of our other human emotions; often times even more so. Love is not a "nice to have". It is essential to our emotional, mental, and physical health. 

Family, friends, interesting hobbies, and a good career are not suitable substitutes for romantic and sexual love.

On this forum I rarely discuss loving, long term relationships because the men that this blog is geared towards are not ready.  They are too desperate, evoke too much fear, and are generally not attractive to women.

Nevertheless it is important to remember why we spend so much time undoing the "male brain washing" and why it is so vital for men to get back to their natural roles as strong, dominant leaders.
 
There are very few things on this planet that is as satisfying than receiving the unyielding love from an amazing, beautiful woman.  It trumps sleeping with multiple women, 3-somes, being "the man" at a club, showing off to your friends, or any other archetype that men generally try to strive for.

When you can put your Trust in a woman wholeheartedly, you find out what real strength truly is.  When you live your life for someone else and stop living only for yourself, then you truly understand why men and women are put on this Earth together.  Men and women need each other.  There is no such thing as 100% happiness being alone.  That is simply a defensive mechanism people project onto each other after years of frustration in the dating world.

Achieving this level of intimacy is hard for men today because they aren't the type of man that will attract women who possess awesome character traits.  They draw the high maintenance and high drama women.  They get jerked around and eventually develop a hatred for women. 

No matter what you do as a man, you will never know how high your strength can fly till you feel the enormous love of a woman.  No matter where you go as a man, you will never know how deep your courage can flow till you return that love, not out of scarcity.....but out of choice.

Every day you don't face your fears and every day you make excuses is another day where your window to find true happiness closes. When you meet your Soul Mate, will you be ready to be hers?