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Monday, June 2, 2014

There's this girl...

Whenever I receive an email or read a forum post that begins with, "So I have this situation and there's this girl...", I don't bother reading the many paragraphs following that sentence.  Every guy thinks his situation is so very unique, when the reality is he is just like every other Weak Guy that has carried a ton of Myths around with him most of his life.

He is simply Desperate and all the little details that he thinks are important are actually completely useless.  Of course he will know every nice word she has ever said to him, how many minutes since the last text, exactly which Tuesday she said something that possibly could indicate that maybe she might be thinking of going out with him one day in the not-so-distant or distant future.

So this post is to answer all the questions that a guy would have in a situation of this nature.  They are as follows:

Answer #1: No.
Answer #2: Definitely No.
Answer #3: Hell No.

The chart below will help facilitate why this problem is so common today and it has nothing to do with the girl in question and everything to do with how the guy is simply chock full of Fears.

Click on chart below for a larger view:




Posted by Baller at 5:05 PM
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  1. UnknownDecember 23, 2014 at 2:00 AM

    This is me: You have little to no dates, sex or experiences (with girls that I like), so when a girl that I like shows me some affection I get desperate which is NOT attractive and the cycle starts over again.
    How can I solve this problem? I guess hitting on several girls that I find attractive and go for the one that's more responsive to me.

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    1. BallerDecember 23, 2014 at 2:29 PM

      Why is it that guys who do poorly with women always ask the same questions over and over again? I told you in the other thread....stop. caring. so much. about what women think of you.

      And yes...talk to more women and stop being so damn eager and nice.

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    2. UnknownJanuary 3, 2015 at 8:11 PM

      I think you are talking about self-validation.

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  2. UnknownDecember 25, 2014 at 2:41 AM

    Because I don't understand why you say I care so much about what women think of me, I don't see it. Maybe it is obvious to you but it is not obvious to me. I don't see what I'm doing wrong.

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