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Tuesday, February 5, 2013

Sharing vs Oversharing

I've seen and heard the same complaint hundreds of times; women sharing their horrible date stories because men cannot seem to keep their emotions in check and their mouth shut on the first couple of dates.  They think spilling their guts is being "honest" or "vulnerable". 

This is a terrific article on achieving that simple balance between Sharing vs Oversharing.



2 comments:

  1. I enjoy reading your articles and absorbing knowledge based on your vast experience with women but I'm quite surprised you linked an article on a market heavy PUA site like that. Sure its by legendary Neil Strauss but...

    And the article, while the author makes a good point and safe advice about conversation boundries which is fine but I couldn't help but to wonder about some things - The fact that its written by a WOMAN (you even have a post named 'Never Listen To What Women Say'), 'six dates in we're still trying to impress each other', multiple dinner dates(seriously?)...it just seems strange that its published on a site like that and the fact that a man like yourself is linking to it.

    Sorry if this didn't make any sense.
    Keep on the good work.

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    1. Do yourself a favor..stop looking at "movements". Learn from everyone and apply it to your life and learn from your experiences...success and failures.

      Good information is good information...the key is you take risk and do things instead of just reading.

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